How to create a stunning dating profile
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People register themselves on dating sites and expect immediate results and hordes of dating offers. They get disappointed when that does not happen. Very often, it is the profile that is posted on the site that may be the reason for a muted response. Now you may ask as to what is the best online dating profile that one can post. While there is no such thing as best, since everything is relative, there exist some tips that can ensure your visibility on the net among a wide audience.
1) Keep it crisp and easy to read
Most online dating sites offer the facility of a space for some description about yourself that you can post in that space. This space has a limitation and you need to restrict your comments to fit that limit. Hence it is important to think and decide clearly what to post rather than think of something on the spot and make a mess of it. You can start with making a list of the things you want to mention and then review them to remove the ones not necessary. Now you can actually write the profile on paper and again check for areas where you can put shorter remarks.
It is always better to keep the profile description to the point, but at the same time interesting enough to warrant reading by the many surfers visiting the site. You may also edit the profile on a regular basis if you can think of anything more interesting and useful to mention about yourself. Certain sentences can be shortened to mean the same thing, for instance, “I am a person who likes to listen to songs and my pals also think that I always tell the truth”, could be shortened to “I love music and am honest”
You have been able to shorten a 21 word sentence to 6 words without changing the meaning and that is what is required.
2) You need to be true and add a dash of humor
All of us like smiling and enjoy good jokes and a one liner. Studies indicate that many people look for individuals who are witty and can bring a smile to their face. Humor can often put a lot of things that have gone awry, straight and it is no surprise that people want their partners to have a good sense of humor.
Adding that dash of wit to your comment box will greatly improve the chances of visibility and responses.
3) A good snap
Though one is not supposed to judge a book by its cover, people on the internet look at both the snap as well as the profile of the person they are interested in before deciding on a date. You should therefore support your profile with a good recent photograph.
You cannot guarantee a perfect profile, but can certainly develop one that is superior to the other profiles and stand a better chance.
Horoscopes for Dating
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If you are thinking for a date on Saturday, besides your own preparation, you need to have a look at your horoscope also. Like everything else in today’s world, this also has to be online.
There are various types of horoscopes. The Western principles of astrology which include the Zodiac (Aries, Taurus, Gemini, etc.) have its support from your birthday. The Chinese Zodiac (Snake, Dragon, Horse, etc.) on the other hand has its support from your birth year. You also have the branch of numerology, where each of the alphabets of your name is given a number and also to the hour, place and date of your birth. In addition to the above methods of astrology, you also have tarot card and rune readings to assist you with some predictions about your future.
If your horoscope is accurate and has all relevant information, you can get a lot of predictions on your future and compatibility with the other elements influencing at that time. It details the “universal forces” that can influence the events at any particular tenure of time. For instance, it will tell you the probability of you getting into tiffs on some days, while other days could be smooth sailing. All this information is not meant to render you a fatalist, but just to prepare you so that you are better informed and can take precautions before the event. It is similar to the weather forecast which says it might rain so it is better to take the umbrella with you when you go out.
The advantage is that you can get your compatibility rating sheets also. Suppose your birth year is the Year of the Dragon, it tells you that you will get along famously with someone born in the birth year of Rabbit. The Chinese followed such guidelines so strictly that they did not permit marriages to take place if the horoscopes were not compatible or they felt that the alignment is not as it should be. While this is a question of faith and belief, it is worth a look and can be an educating experience. It can also be very relaxing and enjoyable.
Many online horoscopes offer a free service, while some others offer a specific trial period to test out. These sites combine the free trial with a reasonable charge for providing a customized and comprehensive chart for you for. Other sites give you information on which is the auspicious days to meet people, when you should stay at home and whether do you need to buy any lucky charm and carry them with you. There are some sites which restrict themselves to broad advice covering a month or a longer period of time.
You have some tarot or rune cards which offer self development tips and these cover the events you are experiencing currently and how you can address them.
It does not matter if it is general or comprehensive, you would do well to look at some of the online horoscopes to assess your chances for a date.
Dating in London
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Amongst all places in Europe, London is the preferred option for dating. It has been hailed as the epicenter of films, culture, music and a perfect launching place for anything different. London often has set the pace which other cities follow suit and if it is a success in London, it will be a success elsewhere too. London sports two visages – cool and conservative during the day and very enticing during the night. It is this quality which attracts visitors to this city from all over the world because they know that the place is informal and gives enough freedom to everybody as well as space to exist.
The cosmopolitan nature of London makes dating a wonderful activity and many savvy singles are on the look out for their match. Getting around London is a breeze and you can swiftly find what you are expecting to get. This city makes no distinction and irrespective of age, culture, values and tradition, there is a meeting of all kinds of people.
Physically, though looking for a date in London is not the recommended method when one considers that the city is home to over 12 million residents and being far spread. Though, as mentioned, getting around in this city is no problem but you could save time by turning to the internet to solve your dating problem. This has proved to be extremely popular and has quickly grown and set off a movement. Many singles are now looking to dating sites to find their dates for them.
Things have never been better. The tremendous choice of dating sites actually mean that you are spoilt for choice and it becomes difficult to select the right one. You must go for one which offers a secure and enjoyable setting to enable you to share your thoughts with interesting, cool and smart singles.
Go for a site that gives you a wide choice of singles, get registered and place your requirements. You are sure to get a tremendous response from the various singles that are also on the lookout like you.
This is a definitely better option than looking for a date in bars and nightclubs. You can do this from your house at your convenience and take the time to make your choice. A great benefit of online dating is that you are privy to a lot of information about your potential date and are better prepared for the meeting. Of course, your date is also equally informed about you and that makes the date mutually enjoyable. This is assuming that your disclosures are true and not fabricated.
So, go ahead, use the dating site to find a compatible date in London the next time and you are likely to smile.
Tips to look good and impress your date
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It would not be quite easy for a shy person to approach a woman. But please do not misunderstand that you are not attractive or you would have to spend the rest of your life in solitude. You just have to make minor corrections in your life.
Here are some pointers which would be useful for you:
BODY:
It is absolutely important for one to smell good. If you smell good, then half your job is done. No one wants to be in the company of a foul smelling person. Body odour is a put off, so go ahead and invest in a few after shave gels and deos. This will do the trick.
- Women like a hairless body
- Hairy chest can also be attractive and sexy, but could also be itchy and irritating. You could probably shave off that hair for a cleaner look.
- Many men have hair on their ears and nose. Women do not find this attractive. Try to removing it off.
- Being in shape enhances the level of confidence. If you have put on some extra pounds, try burning it off by indulging in a sport.
SKIN:
Dull and worn out skin can make a person look tired and more than one’s age. Try and drink lots of water at least 2 liters a day. Go in for a glycerin based soap wash.
An apricot scrub could be tried once a week, for cleansing your face. It would give a fresher and cleaner look.
Use a moisturizer to soften your skin. Your face would have a smoother look.
Many men have long thick cuticles. Go in for a manicure to give it a cleaner look.
HAIR:
One needs to maintain one’s hair by cleaning, conditioning and nourishing.
- Wash your hair at least thrice a week
- Go in for an anti dandruff conditioner based shampoo
- Go to a hair stylist who would give you a good hair style. It could boost your self-esteem.
- A close hair cut would make the person look dignified and matured.
- Trust your designer since your hair designer would be the best person to deciding on what style suits you. If advised by your hair stylist, go in for hair gel or wax.
CLOTHES:
A man is judged by the clothes he wears:
ACCESSORIES:
Accessories like belts, wallets, perfumes and eye care items like sunglasses, contact lenses part in enhancing the look of a person.
- Belts – they are available in various styles, designs and colors
- Perfume – wear a perfume which is mild. Your date should enjoy the way you smell
- Eye care – fashionable eyeglasses, lenses are a trend nowadays. Wear something if you are comfortable.
SMILE:
You should never forget to wear this accessory. A smile can set everything set right. If you have taken enough care to dress keeping in mind all the above pointers, but have forgotten this major one, then no one can help you. In order to give a radiant and healthy smile, you need to take good care of your teeth. Your teeth have to be clean not stinking and healthy.
Women love to be in the company of men who can make them smile and laugh.
Blind Date Ideas
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Many set out for blind dates. This type of a date could be scary if your date does not appreciate your interests and tastes. Your date could find your likings absolutely dull and boring. Same could be the case with you. You might find your date’s tastes, likings and interests unexciting. One could either be an introvert or an extrovert. If you are the outgoing type and your date on the contrary is a reserved person, things could be really dreary for both of you. It could be really an enjoyable date if both of you are of the same nature and have the same perspective. If both of you happen to be fun loving by nature, then you have made it. You are on the right track. You needn’t be given extra clues about how to make your date a successful one. You know how to go about and make your date an exciting one.
There is no dearth of places to visit and sights to see, in case both of you happen to be outdoor freaks. Rock climbing, trekking could be a few ideas for trekkers. Make arrangements with the agency for the rock climbing or trekking activity. You could also in touch with the agency for making the necessary arrangements. Ensure that you carry the right equipment and kit for the activity, some food and drinks. It is advised to also carry a first aid kit. Try and take breaks in between with your partner, so that you not only enjoy trekking, but also are able to spend time with your date. This way you would get to know more about each other. You would be able to share topics of interest. You would also not feel out of place. Such tips also help in developing relationships which are not only long lasting, but also endearing.
Rock climbing : One is advised not to venture out for rock climbing if both you are your date are new at it and have not tried your hands at it before. You could go for indoor rock climbing. There are many indoor rock clubs who engage professionals for teaching rock climbing. When practicing rock climbing indoors, you would get the same feel as you would have got outdoors. Both of you could enroll in such a club wherein you get to spend time with each other, by offering support to each other during your rock climbing sessions. This is nothing but working together as a team. Both of you could have come closer to each other this way. A word of caution: do not go in for the real rock climbing outdoors, unless you are fully confident.
Mountain biking : Mountain biking is not for amateurs. You and your date should be doubly sure whether both you and your date are comfortable with it. You need to have the right equipment and experienced support staff if you plan to venture out for this outdoor activity. Select a picturesque location; you would definitely enjoy this activity with your date. A private and quiet place would also give you enough privacy. You just need to ensure that you are on the right path when you go biking. It is advised to keep the security and local police informed about your plan so that in case you lose your way, there is someone to help you out.
There are also other activities like paragliding, surfing and snorkeling for which you would have to go to the beach. These could also be equally interesting. Dating at the beach is an altogether different experience.
Consider a Dating Service
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Modern day pressures are such that it is easy to get lost in the race of career aspirations and lofty personal goals. People rarely find time to meet somebody for an extended period of time and exchange pleasantries. It is business as usual always and suddenly one finds that life is slipping by.
It is no different for the men in uniform or those in the armed services, navy and the police. They are also so busy with their professional challenges that they do not find time.
All of us are on the look out for a partner to share their special moments. We hunt for love and often do not find it because we may be looking in the wrong places. People want true love and will go to any lengths to find one. One source could be critical that might help and that is a dating service.
If someone would have enquired me some years back about the utility of a dating service, my answer would have been a resounding no. I was of the belief that people are capable of finding their mates on their own and these services are only money making rackets. Over the years, however, I have observed many of my clients achieving success through a dating service and are happily settled in their marriage.
If you want to go in for a dating service, do your due diligence and only then select the one right for you. There are many sites that are not genuine and will fleece you of your money. So it is important to do some background work and then select a dating service.
You can take references from your associates or close acquaintances about their experiences if any and also their suggestions. Do not be under the illusion that a dating service will fulfill all your relationship problems. You need to understand that a successful relationship is also dependent on a very important person and that is you. So take the time to understand yourself and then find a match.
People can meet each other and start finding whether they are compatible with each other through a dating service. The correct selection is therefore important as it should not put you off for ever. You can use the internet to research and know more. Being sure of your needs and not expecting something unreasonable is the key to find success in a dating service.
The best thing about trying out such a service is that you do not have anything to lose and if it clicks, you have everything to gain.
Things to avoid stating in an email
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When you are forwarding your mails to your recently found online crush, it could be too alluring to disclose everything about yourself. But hold on !
To begin with, try and keep your email short and to the point. Do not be over enthusiastic about disclosing all your personal details. Do not get into the game of confessions or make a hue and cry about it. Once you are totally confident about each other, you could take it forward.
Even while keeping the emails short and to the point, here are a few pointers which you would need to keep in mind.
- Emails should not send out threatening signals. It is an offence. It is a private property and you could land in jail. Try and maintain decent language. Emails can be monitored, so be careful before typing anything. Anyways, why would you want to threaten someone, you are here to enjoy your date, isn’t it? Nowadays, you cannot get your way threatening someone, especially when you are on a date. Those days have passed.
- Even though it may be too tempting to share all facts about yourself, consciously share only that information which you feel is necessary.
- Be positive and say things meaningfully.
- Do not beat round the bush.
- Make it easier for the person to know you.
- Make the communication light and humorous.
- Share jokes and your outlook on certain matters.
- Stick to the point.
- Maintaining a positive attitude would help to foster a long lasting relationship.
- Positive attitude helps in maintaining smooth relationships. Avoid sarcasm in your emails. Too much of negativity would drain out the essence and the liveliness out of your vision and enthusiasm.
- Try and open out. State the facts. This is also true for men in armed forces, navy and air force. Uniformed men should disclose their identities to their dates, so that your date is clear about your profession. They need to come out with their identities. Say things about yourself. In general communication, it would be rude to talk about oneself, but when you are dating online, it is best to share information about yourself, so that your relationship is absolutely transparent. You could share your feelings, so that your mate can decide whether both of you are compatible mentally and psychologically with each other. One should try and be more open about oneself.
As in any relationship, there are certain things to be considered when you want to know each other. A person entering into a relationship on the internet should follow certain basic courtesies. Be positive and frank while sharing information. It is advised that one asks questions about each other before deciding on your life partner. This way you would be doubly sure whether both of you are well suited and compatible with each other.
Online Dating Tips
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Are you comfortable buying a dress or a diamond ring, without even taking a look at it? I am sure none of us would make that mistake and would definitely look at the choice available before making our purchase. Then how is it that you are okay with dating online? Shouldn’t you at least get to know the person, you intend dating.
Online dating is very common nowadays. People even do not post their photographs on the net, while they are dating. They spend precious time and money joining a site, sending their profile, filling the survey form, only to eliminate them from the opportunity of a prospective date, because they don’t post their photographs.
Is it because they do not feel good about themselves? One needs to understand that we should appreciate ourselves for what we are and post the photograph. Success will come.
People who post their photographs on online dating sites should take care as under-
- Avoid explicitly sexual photos
- Hazy photographs
- Photographs with kids in the background
- Somebody drinking and raising a toast
- Old outdated photographs
- Ultra formal photographs
- Photos where the attire is garish
- Photos where hair is unkempt
- Incomplete photographs
- Photos depicting bad attitude
- Grim faced photos
One should ensure that one does not forward photographs as above, since they do not project you in good light. Considering that you are searching on line for a life partner, get yourself clicked by a professional, so that your photograph projects you as you are. Do make sure that you are smiling, while getting clicked. A smile could get anything straight. So smile from your heart and the opposite person will receive it well. You would look brilliant and would get lot of positive response.
Your photograph should not be more than a year old. It would be very disappointing for your date to discover that you look older than what your photograph suggests.
Avoid sending group photographs. People want to date you and not your group.
Always look cheerful while you are getting clicked. This way you would come across as a fun loving and jovial person. Do not sport a serious demeanor. Remember that your photograph is the lead for your prospective life partner. Understand that a typical surfer browses the net very fast and there has to be something really attractive to hold attention. So, if your photograph does not communicate that, then you have lost the battle, not the war.
Hence, ensure that you follow the rules of the game as mentioned above to emerge as a winner.
Things to avoid while dating
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One is advised not to reveal everything to your dating partner because certain matters are not worth revealing. It is advised that you bury old thoughts, which would be of little or practically no value. It is best to keep certain things to yourself. Your partner would be least interested in these details. Here are some pointers and tips which would be worth following for a successful date. Men in armed forces, navy and personnel and uniformed men could also incorporate these pointers for a successful date.
- Avoid talking about your past boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse. Your date doesn’t want to hear that anyways. It could put off your date. He or she would get the feel that you are trying to replicate your past date or spouse. So, avoid doing so.
- Money matters cannot top the list, when you are dating. You would send out wrong vibes to your partner that you consider money as the topmost priority. One is advised not to give that feel to your partner. Sending out the wrong signals could end your relationship, before it could actually take off.
- Avoid talking ill about your past dates, friends or family members. This is not something your date would like to hear. You could be a person of principles. He/she would not appreciate this quality of yours. Your relationship would end just like that. No one anyways would want to trust a gossip monger. You are here to build a relationship out of a date, not talk ill about others.
- Avoid talking about past close relationships. Do not give importance to your past intimate relationships. It would discomfort your date and make them feel embarrassed. They would feel obliged to fulfill the expectations set by you. One needs to make the date enjoyable and not intimidating. You cannot give your date the feeling that you still have memories of your past relationships.
- Do not even by mistake, mention about your dishonesty towards your past date. No would appreciate this sort of a character. They would feel you are on another roller coaster ride to cheat them. They would get rejected straightaway since you have yourself admitted that you are a total crook and prankster. You would be eliminated anyways because you date feels you have a history of cheating.
- Only state those things that matter and are important. Unimportant things should have no place in your agenda. Things which are not worth mentioning need not be raked, since they would raise several other issues. Obviously, you would not be in a position all the queries.
The above would have sounded you the right things that you need to share with your date. It is but obvious that one would want to have a trusted and long lasting relationship with one single partner rather than looking out for fresher pastures everyday. If you are serious on hanging on to one person, then do not frighten your date with unnecessary information. Your date would anyways not want to hear unnecessary trash from your. Follow the rule “Silence is golden” in this case.
Writing Love Letters
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When you love someone, you also need to express it. never more so is this important than when in a relationship with somebody in the military when periods of absense are far to common. Do not let the train pass. When you need to communicate to your partner, how much you feel for him/her, just say it. Most do not know how to approach this issue. You could convey your feelings towards your partner by sending out an email. But like most people, you could be blankly staring at the monitor. You do not know what to write, and in the end you just give up, out of frustration. Many find it difficult to communicate their feelings towards their partner. They grope for words to convey their thoughts.
Every human wants to be loved and made to feel on top of the world. Everyone is so hard pressed for time that they do not take the effort to enjoy the small things, which is the very essence of love. Shakespeare rightly said “There is no time to stand and stare”. This is particularly applicable in the case of uniformed men and men in military, navy and air force, since they have no time for themselves and their families.
One is not able to judge even one’s own closest relationships. We feel that they are the ones who would be able to connect to our relationships and understand. But our judgment may prove to be wrong.
You need to pen such a beautiful letter which not only makes you feel happy, but also your partner. So then where do you begin?
- Write 5 qualities you find interesting in your partner. Be precise about it. Explain in detail about each quality of your partner, you value most. Choose examples to support those traits and qualities.
- Pen down 5 things they have done for you giving examples. This way you could substantiate your love for your partner. You could communicate your feelings towards your partner in this fashion.
- Choose any 3 examples from the qualities mentioned above, and write a letter. Begin with “I love you —–“. Try and convey your feelings towards your partner and express your thoughts about how blessed you eel to have him/her in your life. Express gratitude about the way you are made to feel in your partner’s company.
- Write a draft letter. You could then go ahead and beautify it with the right phrases and proverbs. Once you complete your letter, you would be in a better position to edit it, so that it flows well. You could give final touches to your letter after a day or two. Opt for an attractive, scented paper to write your letter. This would give a feel of love and warmth. Your partner would appreciate your time and effort in writing the letter. It would really touch her heart and she would feel deeply for you. In case you feel you do not have a good handwriting, then try getting it written by a professional. You could also try typing on a computer using an attractive font. As far as possible, one is advised to keep the letter personal by handwriting it and not typing it, since you would be losing the personal touch and warmth, the letter is meant to convey.
- You now need to ensure delivery of the letter to your partner. Whether you want to slip it into his/her briefcase/handbag or would you want her to read the letter in your presence? You could also send a bunch of flowers or a box of chocolates along with this letter. Ensure that the very essence of this letter does not pale in comparison to the gifts.